Love is a form of fear , giving you courage

yay ! My first case . finally ! someone email me . For his privacy option , we shall known her as M.I. He is a italian that`s all i know , i posted about this blog on a italian site too . (- _-) dn`t need to ask . i was racking my mind to post that .here`s the story . i even have to translate the email , hard work . (= w =) so tell your friends out there !

Dear meki ,

i have a girl i like but she is very popular , (i will address the girl as Ian ) Ian ,
i heard she have many sex friends . She is a type of girl my parents don`t like . and i am too scared to tell her my feelings . I always stared at her , recently , i think she notice me . I am scared, but i really want to tell , it`s really painful , i can`t be calm . What should i do ?

M.I~


My reply :
why are you scared ?

yes , why are people always claiming they`re scared , you will never be able to hide your feelings , your feelings will calm down when you confess. The flow stop . no matter you get hurt or get love , you will become stronger . Only when you experience love will you understand , love make people vulnerable but strong . It can make you weak , it can make you strong , your only choice is to live with it .

His reply :
i don`t know .

This is the answer many people nowaday are giving . There`s no reason to be scared . Fear is something every one face , every single day .
this is my last reply :
Confessing your feelings will saved you . Hiding your feelings doesn`t give you a way . It`s a dumb way . No matter how much you get hurt , it will make you stronger , hiding only make you a coward !

And lastly , always , remember , you are not alone .

Anthony , my good friend ~

Anthony , alright , i can`t say too much . He`s a "ally" ,well..comic store ally... we like to read comic very very much . i envious him , he has the complete collection of naruto manga . (-_-) Well , recently he`s in love with a senior from his school . (i can`t said what kind of senior ) well , the senior is kind , gentle and help anthony alot , i guess anthony started liking him from that point .the problem is , age gap , relationship and most importantly they are both guys ! i can`t just tell anthony to go commit sucide , can i ? he confessed and got rejected . it`s really hard to find guys like anthony and "senior" . i hope anthony good luck. ^o^

After understanding anthony problem , i decided to set up a love advise headquarter . please email : sagami-chiaki@hotmail.com to ask for advise ! i will help you ! (^_^)